Six things to know about someone with dementia

I can still smell the flowers

I don’t garden anymore, but I can still smell the flowers. Bring me some roses. This will remind me of my past.

I can still communicate

I can’t talk the way I used to, but I can still communicate. Be patient as I try. This will help me feel connected.

I can still make decisions

I don’t have the judgment I used to, but I can still make decisions. Give me choices. This will make me feel like I’m a part of things.

I can still wash my face

I can’t take a bath by myself anymore, but I can still wash my face. Assist me with direction. This will help me feel purpose.

I can still sing

I can’t dance anymore, but I can still sing. Help me enjoy music. This will enrich my life.

I can still move my body

I can’t walk unassisted anymore, but I can still move my body. Walk with me and support me if I stumble. This will help me feel engaged.

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You are my lifeline. I depend on you. But please do not do for me what I can do for myself. Recognise what I can do and help me to function as a person. You are key to the quality of my life.

–  Unknown author